January 24th, 2007
Dress for Success
This was the tittle of a ground breaking book for business men in the 70’s.Author John Molloy’s book became a best seller. I did not need the book, my mother taught me to dress well. However, many men were clueless. Some of the advice was; wear red or yellow ties for power, dark suits, but not black, too much power. Never wear a brown suit, too weak. A man should only wear a wedding ring and a watch for jewelry. White shirts were a must and do not mix a pattern with another pattern. If you have a stripped tie, wear a solid suit, or a stripped suit, wear a solid tie. Mr Molloy’s advice was very conservitive and boring. Keep in mind, I never read the book but it was such a story, most men of that time would follow and talk about it’s guidelines plently.
Fast forward, 2007. I came across some advice under the title, “want the job? Dress the Part!” Advice given; reconsider that fauxhawk hair, Blue hair looks cool but a traditional workplace may not be accepting, be careful with visible tattoos and body piecings, It is a job interview not night at the club, leave the strappy open toe shoes at home. No short sleeves, do not wear too much perfume ,cologne or make up. I assume this advice is for women, wear a bra, do not reavel too much skin and look professional.
As Marvin Gaye would say, what’s going on. Very seldom do people dress nicely to, go to games, fly, go to plays, funerals, church, work and now we have to be told , wear a bra for a job interview, or not to color your hair blue!
I remember, wearing a suit and tie 5 days a week. Then we had casual Friday. Then Causal Monday and Friday, later Casual Summer and ultimatly, casual every day. I must admit, I enjoy wearing a suit and enjoy not having to wear a tie. But now when I watch CNN in the morning the news people may not wear a tie, the President may not have a tie on, have we gone too far? I think Richard Nixon always wore a suit, I see people out in clothes they could pull weeds in.
If you look at old fight photos or ball games, the fans are dressed up. People use to dress up to fly. What do you think? How about the jeans showing boxer shorts, thongs and more, combat shoes? I say there is a time and place but perhaps it is time to take more pride in appearance. Friends I have from other nations have been heard to say Americans are slobs. Dose it matter?





