August 7th, 2007
Black Women, Could new Mr. Right be white?
I came across an article in Sunday’s Sun Times on recent trends in black women dating. It appears some black women are dating outside our race. This is a black in business issue because the women quoted in the article, struggled to meet professional black men. We are just not good enough, if we are God fearing, hard working, drug free and faithful. We have to be professional as well. My father was a good husband for over 50 years to an educated black woman, and he worked in the mines.
There was a time when black women were the property of white men and the date consisted of rape. How comfortable are the holidays with the black family members on her side that have been victimized by racism caused by white men. How about his white family members that may think of their new sister as a nigger, how much fun will they be to celebrate with..
The message for us brothers, is to get ourselves together, many more black women are attending and finishing college and want a professional man. I think some have wanted a whit man all their lives. The article talks about meeting your mate in college. I went to college at the state University in the whitest state in America. I have married twice and both of my wives have been black.
It is true we have more young men in the prison system than in college, and supposedly many more living down low. It has to hard on these young women. I hope this trend is a last resort for black women and a wake up call to brothers that may be wasting their lives so much, that now our beloved sisters are rejecting us for the slave master’s kin. It just is not right. Please see the link to Dionne Walkers column on this topic. Let’s discuss this and the causes for it. Is it good or bad? My brother married a white woman, and I have seen this phenomenon up close!





