April 30th, 2008
Black In Business, Barack Made The Right Move, Some Day You May Have The Same Decision To Make
The White boy pundits of politics were meek early this morning. Yesterday they called Barack a punk over Rev. Wright. They said he was non confrontational, weak or aloof. None of these adjectives are descriptions you want to see in a President. I am convinced the young pundits are jealous of Barack. Here they are, doing well for themselves but a big part of their job today is to speak about a Blackman that has passed them by. Many of these pundits were born privileged and connected. They started off on third base and thought they hit a triple. These guys had a field day when Barack showed little in bowling they said no way he was an athlete. Now that the clips of Barack driving to the hole have surfaced, they are meek over the macho stuff. Morning Joe even conceded that Barack is likely our next President.
What has this to do with business? A lot. When you decide you want to better your life or move on from your current existence, you will leave some behind. As you make your goals and speak about the life style you want in life, you may scare your friends with no goals. Some people will try to discourage you. You will hear you don’t have what it takes. The guys on the corner will want you there with them, aimlessly, playing the dozens, sipping drinks, enjoying life. You will be considered arrogant, full of yourself and worst yet, acting white!
Little good in life comes without effort. I recall in Syracuse, New York, when I was 24 years old, nice Sunday afternoons. The action was in the park, friends were playing hoops, backgammon, slipping cheap wine and some smoking weed. The sun was shining and the park of full of nice ladies. I had to spend Sunday updating my establishment profile cards to turn in on Monday. I could not hang. A real good friend told me, he did not understand why I was messing with this corporate stuff. He said I was a hustler, and hustling was in my blood. This guy was 41 but he hung with the young guys. We had a lot of fun but he would not accept my new vision. I have not be around him in decades. I made the decision when he was living in my apartment and unable to pay rent because he had no job. After I made the decision to put him out, our friendship went with my decision.
My advice is to surround yourself with winners and those that share your value. You need friends that motivate you and are not envious of your efforts. Are you prepared to lose face in the community as you chase your dream? It had to be painful for Barack to realize his mentor did not care for his goal to move pass Chicago’s Southside. He did what he had to do, will you?
Do not misunderstand this, you can keep your roots in the community and someday your friends that do not want you to grow, will speak of your accomplishments with pride. Follow your goals and never take your eye off the prize.





